“Marriage is the graduate school of forgiveness.” – Dr. Dave Stoop, Psychologist I was struck the day I heard this quote and haven’t been able to forget it. It implies that your ability to love will be stretched so far in marriage, that you’ll become an expert in forgiveness, on both minor and major issues.Read More
Love, Marriage, and Relationships
A Marriage ‘Fun’damental
So, you’re married, and a few months, years, or even decades have passed. You’re still hanging in there, still holding on to the love, but are you still having fun? Volumes of books have been written about the intricacies of the marital relationship. Lectures, seminars, conferences, and sermons have been orated and presented on theRead More
Social Media & Your Marriage: What’s the Big Deal
This post is not about bashing technology. Rather, it’s about considering some of the ways in which marriages can be unknowingly left vulnerable, in an age that offers so many ways of communicating, but sometimes fails to provide the true connection we as humans seek. Extramarital affairs begin in many ways and for many differentRead More
Love in the Time of Modern Technology
There are many things that challenge the strength and integrity of a relationship. Anything from stress to the untimely reemergence of an ex can put a strain on an otherwise healthy partnership. Going into a relationship, most people are aware that there will be challenges. I dare say that as a relationship continues to growRead More
No Romance, No Date, No Problem–Making the Best Out of Being Single on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day–or Singles Awareness Day as some have renamed it–is right around the corner. If you watch television, go to grocery stores, or participate in social media, you are likely to be bombarded by pink, red, and chocolate. It’s completely normal for those who are currently lacking in the romance department to feel a littleRead More
5 Ways to Revitalize Your Troubled Relationship
The reality of every day is that romantic relationships go through ups and downs that can leave us feeling defeated and lonely. But there is hope. Relationships can heal and love can be revitalized. Put these tried and true methods to the test to mend your troubled relationship. Make time together a priority. Nothing putsRead More
5 Ways to Revitalize Your Troubled Relationship
The reality of every day is that romantic relationships go through ups and downs that can leave us feeling defeated and lonely. But there is hope. Relationships can heal and love can be revitalized. Put these tried and true methods to the test to mend your troubled relationship. Make time together a priority. Nothing putsRead More
No Romance, No Date, No Problem–Making the Best Out of Being Single on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day–or Singles Awareness Day as some have renamed it–is right around the corner. If you watch television, go to grocery stores, or participate in social media, you are likely to be bombarded by pink, red, and chocolate. It’s completely normal for those who are currently lacking in the romance department to feel a littleRead More
Breaking the Cycle of Domestic Violence:What Role Do You Play?
Domestic violence has become one of the most controversial topics across social media. People take to their social media platform of choice to point the finger, place blame, question why persons remain in violent relationships, or express distress at the prevalence of domestic violence. Some courageous survivors have come forth using #whyistayed to bring aRead More
Date Your Mate!
When I work with married couples, one of the priorities, in addition to learning about their goals for counseling, is to learn how the couple would rate their friendship. Is there an ability to laugh and play together? Do they enjoy each other’s company? Strengthening the friendship is one of the keys to longevity inRead More